Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Baby # 2 update - It's a BOY!

I wanted to find out the baby's gender before our 20 week ultrasound, so at 15 weeks I paid to have an early gender ultrasound. I asked the sonographer to write the gender and seal it in an envelope so both Alex and I would find out at the same time!

It's a BOY! That was my guess given how different I was feeling and all the old wives tales. We are both so excited and it is really fun to daydream about having a son and all the different types of experiences we will have with a boy. I can't wait to see how he looks, if he looks and acts similar to Ruby, how the two will interact and to see Alex do all the father/son activities with him. We have chosen a name (two family names) but will be keeping it a secret until he is born!

Here is a 3D picture from my 15 week scan. Looks like he is waving hello!

Ruby's birthday present - A swingset!

We purchased a cedar swingset for Ruby's 2nd birthday present.

Alex and his dad worked hard putting it together over the course of a few days. The directions were not very clear and none of the bazillion pieces were well labelled, so their efforts are MUCH appreciated!






















Here is the final product! Ruby loves it and we MUST swing at least once a day. Thanks Alex and Bob/Pop!

Ruby's 2nd Birthday Party

We had Ruby's birthday party at one of our favorite parks. My inspiration for the castle theme came from this piece of their playground equipment...


Although it was chilly and EXTREMELY windy, Ruby had a blast playing on the playground with her buddies and swinging on the swings (Thanks Aunt Mollie!).








I got this paper castle for the kids to color.







Happy Happy!







Ruby and mama...

Ruby and daddy...


Alex, Di and Ruby...



The Goodell clan...(Thanks for making the drive!)



I hand-sewed hand puppets for all the kiddos. The boys got frog princes and the girls got princesses with yarn hair.



It was so nice to catch up with everyone!



We all sang happy birthday and the kids had cupcakes.



I made a cupcake stand in the shape of a castle (it nearly blew away in the hurricane force winds!!!). Happy Birthday Ruby!

Ruby's birthday dress

I made Ruby's birthday party dress this year. I didn't use a pattern, but just created some ruffles and a boatneck top. I was pleased with the way it came out and Ruby even called it a 'princess dress.'




My inspiration was a princess dress that my mom made for me as a Halloween costume when I was younger (see pic). My mom was and is such a creative person...always so full of neat ideas!

VIDEO - Ruby tries to blow out the candles

Happy 2nd Birthday Ruby!













You weighed 25 pounds and 12 ounces on your 2nd birthday and were 34 inches tall.

You make us smile so many times every day...

With your talking…and the funny things you say. It makes me laugh when you say the prince in Snow White is ‘daddy’ when he appears on screen. And how you think the lady on the raisin box is mama. When I offer for ‘mama to help Ruby’ down the stairs you say, ‘Ruby help Ruby.’ You say ‘Bless you Ruby’ if we forget to say anything after you sneeze. Occasionally when we ask you about your day you recall details to us such as playing in the sandbox (a new favorite pastime) or sharing goldfish crackers with one of your friends.

With your sweet personality. We’ve bought a few baby swings for baby 2 and one day I saw and heard you putting your baby dolls in one of the swings. At one point you said ‘Turn, baby. Turn baby.’ You wanted to make sure each of your babies were having a turn in the swing, and so you took one out and put the other one in. You are really good at sharing with other kids and understand that sometimes you have to take turns on the playground swings. You give mama and daddy kisses (usually when we ask) and are concerned when you hear other kids crying.

With your facial expressions. Your daddy and I especially love the sideways look where you glance backwards at us with your eyes. This usually is linked with some sort of testing exercise where you are watching to see how we will react to your test.

With your new skills. When you are super happy you jump multiple times. You think it is so silly to walk backwards, or to scoot on the ground to ‘walk like a crab,’ or ‘crawl like a baby’ or peck at your food as you say ‘eat like chicken.’ You learned how to play the harmonica and play pretty music for mama. Every elevated surface is your 'balance beam' and you love to practice what you learned in gymnastics class. Your dancing is so entertaining to watch and we love that you use the ottoman as your stage.

With your developing sneakiness. When it is time to get dressed/change diaper/go to bed, you know that diving into your tent and ‘hiding’ from mama will prolong this process. You think that hiding something in your hands behind your back with a sneaky grin is also a fun game to play with mama.

With your energy and eagerness to explore your world. It amazes me that sometimes within less than an hour we have colored, made playdough sculptures, played with beads, babies, cooked in your kitchen, sorted seashells, read books, danced to music, and jumped on the bed. Right now you are on the go, go, go. We hear the question, 'What's that?' a bazillion times every day!

With your friendly, social nature. You get so excited when I mention that you are going to see one of your friends, whether it be at your house, their house or out and about. You have so many buddies who like to play alongside you and you are comfortable amongst new friends too.

With your good behavior. You are so calm and good natured. Yes, you are a toddler and have temper tantrums but so many times you are a good listener and are willing to reason with your mama. I’ve been working hard so that you understand that your choices have consequences and I try to give you as many good choices as I can so you feel empowered. So often your daddy and I comment to each other how good you were during an outing.

With your determination. When you want to do something, you pull out all the stops. For example, you like to ‘drive the car’ and the other day said this to me at least 10 times. Right now you are also fixated on watching Snow White and Finding Nemo. You always tell us very clearly when you want to swing, go outside, go swimming, read books, jump on the bed, splash in the sink, play with beads, etc.

With the way you imitate us. You try to use daddy’s tools to 'fix' things, you shake spices and cook like your mama, you try to put deodorant under your arms and put mama’s eyeshadow and lipstick on your cheeks like blush. You like to throw toilet paper in your potty. You copydaddy when he tries to teach you funny words like boondoggle.

With your hair. It is really really SLOW growing. Everyone keeps telling me that babies with slow growing hair go on to have the thickest, shiniest hair. That sounds good to me!

We love you so much Ruby! Thanks for making these past two years fun for us!

Birthday afternoon - backyard playtime

Ruby enjoyed some playtime in the backyard on her birthday.



Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Ruby's 2nd birthday - part one

Ruby's birthday was last Friday. I wanted to make it a fun day for her, doing some of her favorite things.

Luckily my sister Mollie was in town and she was able to join us running around town. Thanks for making the drive up Mollie!

We took Ruby to a small festival where there were some fun rides. We rode the carousel...And Mollie bought Ruby a ticket to ride on these alligator cars (which actually went pretty fast!) and Ruby had an absolute blast. She didn't want to get off!





At the festival there was also a petting zoo which is one of Ruby's FAVORITE things! She took time to pat pat nearly every single animal, including the ducks, chickens, goats, rabbits, and a llama. She is so sweet and gentle with the animals and then squeels and jumps with happiness as she runs to the next one.


After the petting zoo we took Ruby to the Rainforest Cafe for her birthday lunch! She LOVES this place because they have awesome fish tanks and animals everywhere. Mollie held her and walked around showing her all the neat things. Such a good auntie!





We got to sit right by one of the fish tanks during our lunch. Ruby ate macaroni, one of her favorites!

More pics from Ruby's birthday and birthday party coming soon.

Ruby wears daddy's shoes


Ruby finishes art class

Ruby has finished her 8 week art class. She got a lot more practice with painting and squeezing glue!

Painting a flower pot...



Making a chicken on the last day.








She got to see her Maddie at most classes. Here they are holding hands...so cute!

Happy Mother's Day

I spent this Mother's Day with Ruby and the Robersons at the Renaissance Festival. It was so nice to be outside and to watch Ruby's face light up with excitement from all her interesting surroundings. I think that is one of my favorite parts of being a mother ...being able to introduce my daughter to new things, new places, new people, new foods, sounds and smells. It is so rewarding to see her so eager to soak up her world. I know my mom did the same for me because I remain to this day very curious and interested in exploring new places and experiences. Thanks mom. Happy Mother's Day!

Renaissance Festival in Waxahachie

We went with the Robersons to the Renaissance Festival in Waxahachie, which is about an hour from where we live.

It was quite a warm day, but we enjoyed looking at all the scenery and characters in costume.


Face to face with a knight.







Mama and daddy get in costume...








Kate and Alex got henna tattoos.





I got Ruby a jingly bracelet.

Ruby hair update 23 months


Ruby's hair seems to be growing a bit beyond wisps lately, but she still has the least hair of any toddler I have ever seen. Someone mentioned that their daughter didn't have much hair until she was four. Let's hope we have enough for some pigtails before then!

Ruby amongst the swirls

I could not resist taking pictures of Ruby in front of this fantastic swirl background.

Saying cheese for the camera...


All smiles, having so much fun and being silly for mama!

Bye bye dummy

Ruby and I went to one of her her friend Tyler's second birthday party a few weeks ago. It was held at one of those stuff the animal/bear places which was lots of fun for the kids. As our party favor/entertainment, each mom/kid was able to choose an animal and an outfit to stuff (we chose a zebra and a bumblebee tutu outfit).

We've been trying to break Ruby's addiction to her pacifier (or dummy as they call them in the UK) for quite some time now. After trying a few tactics unsuccessfully we were open to trying anything else! I read online that sometimes moms let the kids put the pacifiers into the stuff the animal/bear things and say goodbye to them that way. Well, we tried it and IT WORKED! Ruby asked for it several times and we kept telling her the zebra ate it and that she could feel it in the zebras tummy if she wanted to. We keep the zebra in her bed. It only took one night of a little crying and then it was smooth from then on. The zebra is not shown any affection really (probably because it was the evil thing that ate her pacifier!), but it stays in her bed for reassurance. I am really happy to be past this and not have to worry about the pacifier affecting her teeth! Bye bye dummy, and onto potty training next.

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